Hey. Last week the guy that I had a fwb relationship of over two years contacted me. He had ghosted me last January and even though he got into a relationship right away with another woman, he would occasionally pop up and text me through out last year but when I’d text back, I would never hear from him again. Anyway, he texted me last week and told me that he never stopped thinking of me. That I was the best thing to ever happen to him, that I am his and he is mine and that he wants me forever. We then spoke on the phone for over half an hour and it felt like old times again, I was so happy. Then later that morning, I told him that I want to see him. He said he wants to be friends if thats okay. I told him we shouldn’t. I don’t get it, why did he go from saying all of those things to asking to be friends? Getting over him was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. Should I wait for him to reach out to me again?
He’s your friend… No need to feel shy about saying ” are we meeting or not? “. You were also sleeping together so you could request that he wags his fingers back and forth rapidly against your clitoris. In enlightened circles we refer to this procedure as the Dikembe Mutombo since it’s reminiscent to the NBA Blocking King Dikembe Mutombo’s stapled gesture used after blocking an opponent’s shot.
The orientation of his wrist relative to your clitoris is important. Him being behind you and performing a reach around is the best way. A combination of strumming like you would a guitar and tapping like you would a bass guitar will have you reaching climax in no time 😉