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    js
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    Hi,

    First of all I want to apologize for making this a bit long. I really believe you can help me get a better idea of this situation since you’re a professional in this field. I would really appreciate getting your thoughts on this.

    I’m in college and there is a girl that I’m very very interested in, I’ve never been this interested in somebody like this before since she’s one of the last left pure girls. The reason for this, she checks off the physical attraction right way (she’s my type). This is not the reason why I’m so intrigued in her though. We have a mutual friend, and he told me a lot about her. She’s very humble, comes from a good family, hard worker, good student, only has one social media page instagram, doesn’t post pics of herself, she’s not self centered, she doesn’t like the spotlight, doesn’t wear flashy cloths, doesn’t care about the newest things, everything you can say about a good girl. My friend describes her as a gem, and I can see why. (Cont)

    #116463
    js
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    Last September was the first time I saw her. She works at the schools student gym with my friend. First time we talked, there wasn’t much to it, just straight business about me forgetting my student card and her giving me a pass. That same day a friend and I saw her crossing the street and my friend pointed at her and started teasing me about her, I think she saw that. Next time I saw her, as soon she saw me walking in the building she stared at me and adjusted her hair while looking at me (this might be me being delusional and reading into it to much). Then the next time I saw her when I was checking into the campus gym, she was talking to a co worker and as soon she saw me walking towards her, she completely dismissed her co worker and looked at me and said hi as I was checking in, looked me deep in the eyes as I was reaching for my card, then was very friendly and happy and gave me a thumbs up (I might be all in my head here too).

    #116464
    js
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    Then, I would see her a few times out the week, one time I was talking to our mutual friend at the gym desk, I noticed she saw us talking and came near us and sat behind him to listen to what we were talking about. She didn’t say anything, she was just observing. I thought this was weird cause she did it right after she saw me talking to my friend and went out her way to sit behind him after I started talking to him. Another time I was walking out the gym and I noticed she saw me I was walking out and literally open up her body and looked at me as I walked out.

    #116465
    js
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    This is where I think it gets weird. I was with a friend walking at a distance from her, my friend starts talking a little loudly, she looks at us, I catch her looking and she never looked away until we were out of the picture. She was staring not looking away no shame.

    #116466
    Js
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    Whole story isn’t fitting in the forum. Is there a way I can email you?

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