Does this shy guy like me or is it all in my head?

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    I’ve had a crush on this shy guy for the past three years. We don’t really talk or anything at all. A few months ago, he found out that I like him through a mutual friend. Since then, he started acting a lot different. I’ve caught him looking at me a few times and my friends say they also see him looking at me a lot. He seems comfortable with talking to other girls except for me. He kind of seems to pretend I don’t exist. One time, I decided I wanted to talk to him but I, being a shy person myself, didn’t want to go up to him so I had one of my friends tell him that I wanted to ask him something. He flat out refused to. And finally, when my friend asked him if he likes me (They were with a couple other people, but I wasn’t there) he said, and I quote, “I’m not going to answer that right now.” I feel like if he didn’t like me he would have just said so, but he avoided the question. So my question is, based off of this information, do you think he likes me or am I just being too hopeful? Thank you for your time.


    Hi Sarah,

    It may all be in your head. It is unlikely that this guy likes you.

    He has known that you like him for several months now and hasn’t done anything about it except look at you.

    He has turned down the opportunity to talk to you and when your friend asked him about whether he liked you, his answer was vague.

    Again, his behavior would indicate that he doesn’t like you.

    You may be too hopeful about this guy.

    Regardless of how shy you think he may be, he should have made some kind of move on you once he found out that you liked him.

    Oftentimes, shy guys are primarily afraid that they will get rejected by a girl if they were to talk to her.

    However, once they know that the girl actually likes them, they are often more willing to take a chance on talking to the girl.

    He isn’t shy with other girls. He is able to talk to them without any issues.

    Hence, he already has the conversational skills necessary to talk to you and yet he hasn’t.

    All of this would indicate a lack of interest in you.

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