Do girl's like a forward guy

[Eli]

I spoke to a girl I like in my campus library again, the last time I spoke to her… I made the mistake of not leading the conversation anywhere. So this time I try harder, we talk for a while, conversation is lively, she seemed eager. But I couldn’t find a natural way of getting her number so I just kinda said it, I wanted to keep conversation going but I was running late for class so had no choice. She laughed when asked out of the blue but still gave it to me.

So is being forward like this a good thing, I didn’t feel completely natural doing this but I just decided to go ahead with it.

[Luke]

Hi Eli,

Yes, being forward is a good thing. Girls like guys who are confident and assertive.

This is how you should be whenever you are around her.

The more she gets the sense that you are confident and assertive, the more she will be drawn to you, as long as there is already some physical attraction there.

Just don’t fall into the trap of waiting too long to ask her out. In fact, you should ask her out the next time you see her.

The sooner you learn about whether she is into you by the answer she gives you when you ask her out, the less time and energy you will waste trying to figure out whether she is into you or not.

[Eli]

Hi, thanks for the response. Now that I have her number though I’m faced with having to make the first text. Would a girl ever text first? I assume not so do you have any tips on what to put into that first message?

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