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    So I just started college this fall , something that is confusing to me happened though and I just want the right to my question. So this guy he’s taller than me but not that tall has red hair and I think he’s cute … well he came out of nowhere and he stares at me there are a couple of times when he did this let me name them so one time I walked out of a room at school I saw him and walked the other way I don’t know why …. because I told myslef that I would say hi to him since I am interested in him so ….. when I walked out of the room and went the other direction I sat at the tree … I normally sit there a lot …. I was there for ten minutes or so …. I looked up and I saw him he was staring at me he looked away when I saw him and then he started to walk as I got up and started to … that’s was the second encounter I had with him and so as I started to walk he walk too but not fast and then I stopped and e stopped …. it was confusing I didn’t know what he wanted …. and I hate not knowing things ….. so my first encounter with him I was walking and there were two paths I seen him and took the other path I got shy because he was cute and I think attractive guys like me but I’m not sure plus I a am shy so yeah … I’ve dated a blond haired blue eyed white Guys before he was really attractive and was into me… but anyways so when I walked the other direction he still wound up being next to me …. in front of me at that and he stopped right in front up me for like six seconds and just stopped but I just went around him …. it’s wierd and the weirdest encounter or what’ver you want to call it that happened is that one day recently I was by the bus stop accords the street from my college waiting for the bus I wear glasses so I can’t see far so anyways I seen him he was staring at me across the street while I was waiting for the bus ….. and I seen him and stared back and scared four seconds he looked always and turned around and started to walk away I thought he was gone but then he came back and was looking at me again … and it was weird … then one day I was sitting on the bench with this girl that was like a friend and we were hanging out … I told her if she saw the guy with the red hair let me know …because I actually want to go up to him and say hi but I never really got the chance too and I still do … so yeah she seen him and I saw him and looked at him I got kinda shy and looked away though … and then he just came really close to like maybe not to far from where I was sitting and he walked past me and stared … it was weird and he looked wierd but he’s cute to me idk why maybe it’s because he’s intruging or something to me but yeah so last week I seen him while I was walkin he was at his car and I just looked at him I couldn’t say anything ……….. do you think he may be interested in me and if so what should I say should I say hi but like should I say something else and if so what ? Because it’s weird I don’t know him and it’s just low key scary I only have seen him at college so yeah you think he is interested in me ?


    Talk to him. You’ll regret it if you don’t. I once had a crush on a guy my first year of freshman year in highschool, all there was were exchanges of staring up ’til my senior year. My senior year was when he finally broke the ice and started talking to me, our converstaion was so smooth, we clicked so well. After that we’d find excuses to talk to each other, until he got a girlfriend.. Once he got a girlfriend I was so mad at myself for not being able to tell him how I felt, I had many shots to do so yet I didn’t! We graduated from high school and moved on with our lives obviously, oh and he’s still dating that girl. My emotions are still there though, i think about what could have been if I were to tell him how I felt before he even started dating that girl. After he got a girlfriend, i knew there had to be respect between us so I discontinued the “staring” and would avoid him when he was near me because it hurt me knowing that I liked him so much while he had a girlfriend. Now I’m here, sitting on my couch typing this and thinking “what if?” Well let me tell you, it’s too late! He’ll probably propose to her on one of these days and I’ll be here proud that he’s happy but sad because he was never mine. I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t hurt to take a chance of talking to someone you’re attracted to, worst case scenario you guys will just stop talking. And if doesn’t work out then just know it wasn’t meant to be, somewhere out there there is someone who’s the one, just don’t rush it! Well this was my bitter story of my boy crush that never got to be my boyfriend haha, hope you enjoyed this.

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