An older guy I work with would always flirt with me I finally gave in and started flirting back we been messing around for a while it every once Ina while he will just ignore me as if I did something to him and then days or even weeks later he’ll decide to come back again, we still haven’t had sex he said he doesn’t want to hurt me but then why still mess around with me what’s the point of the other stuff and why won’t he just leave me alone then