I left my bf over 3 years ago and he kept all my belongings. If it didn’t fit in the car I left the in? He got it.
I’ve called, begged, pleaded, cried, and NOTHING has softened his heart. When I met him he had houses with rooms totally filled with things from his 4 ex’s. I wondered why they’d leave him and leave their furniture behind. Now I know. They left on his terms not their own.
Say goodbye to your fancy equipment. Say goodbye to your sex tape. You won’t get it back. He uses it as blackmail and to humiliate you. Move on. The best revenge is a life well lived without him.
I feel for you.