I just came out of a similar situation. I got my strength back. When he told me about the other woman I either had the choice to stay or leave and I choose to leave. I wanted more and needed more from him then the causal dating. Pack your shit and leave. Get outta there so you can get someone who loves you and someone who really deserves you. You don’t have to stick around for that. Your are better than that and you deserves so much better than that. You don’t deserve to be his puppet. Don’t Be afraid to let his ass go. You could be blocking your blessings by holding on to this man. Let him go!!!!