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Lynne
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Thank you for your response. I was just wondering, would ignoring him and refusing to hang out with him anymore likely motivate a commitment-phobic like him to commit?

I wished him the best of luck and started ignoring him after he said that he didn’t want to commit. Yet, he kept texting me even though I didn’t answer. I was foolish enough to give in after several weeks and asked him to meet up. He was more affectionate than ever before and told me how much he missed me—something he had never said.

Lots of people tell me that if he’s not willing to commit or admit that he has feelings for me, that it means that he truly doesn’t care about me.

Do you think this is the case for me? or Does it sound like he truly is in love, but is being held back by this fear of commitment?

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