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Once you have presented your plans to him, it is unlikely that he will insist that you look for another man to make you happy or insist on breaking up.
If he does, you can tell him to give you a chance to implement your plan.
Being that you have both been together for 3 years, he may strongly consider that and give you that chance.
As far as making him understand the point that the problems lie with you and not with him, that is what the plan is for.
The plan is specific because you are already pointing out all of your pain points and also providing remedies to them that you are going to undertake.
The fact that you are that specific in pointing out the problems that are your own will most likely help him realize that you mean business and you are truly taking this seriously.
So, this should give him the patience to at least consider staying without you sounding desperate to make him stay.
It is very good that you have been giving him space and not texting or calling him and leaving communication until you meet him face to face. This allows him time to get some of his emotions under control and you time to prepare your plan.
- This reply was modified 5 years, 3 months ago by Luke.