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Thank you for your advice. I will be concrete about my action plan. It’s time I learn to deal with this issue too.
One more question – What if he insist for me to look for another man that will make me happy? And insists on breaking up?
He seems to have developed self esteem issues because I always seem unhappy. (deep down, my unhappiness is actually related to my depression and self-esteem issues, nothing to do with him) Therefore, he might have perceived himself as “unable” to be that man in making me happy.
I have explained that the problem lies with me, not him. However, I’m not sure if he is convinced as he is still cold and distant towards me.
How can I help him understand this point without sounding desperate in making him stay?
Btw, I have been giving him space – not texting or calling him. I plan to continue doing this untill Sunday when we meet face to face.
Thank you so much and look forward to your kind advice 🙂