I feel bad for him that he can’t seem to know what to do about the situation. I can understand why he could be feeling doubtful since his last failed relationship. He volunteered to mention once that he would never return to his ex- even if she were single and is completely over her. I can also see why he is hesitant. He is a single father with a 12 year old son and maybe careful on who to allow into his son’s life?