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Luke
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Hi Ellie,

He may have told you that he has feelings for you but has suddenly changed and doesn’t want to hang out anymore because he was never all that serious about you.

You may have simply been someone that he enjoyed flirting and hanging out with because he wasn’t doing much else with his time.

However, he may always be busy now because he has found something or even someone else that intrigues him a lot more than you.

It may not be wise to try to get him to like you in the same way as he did before because all of that may have simply been a show.

However, if you still believe that he truly liked you and want to get him back to feeling that way again, it may be best to start making yourself less available to him.

Being that you are just friends now and don’t do anything together, he may still take it upon himself to text you whenever he is bored just to kill some time.

You shouldn’t respond to these kind of texts.

Instead, focus on having an exciting life of your own.

If he truly has feelings for you, he will eventually get to the point where he will want to see you.

Once you get him to this point, you need to still keep your emotions in check and avoid becoming overzealous.

Let him be the one who keeps reaching out to you first.

This is how you get him to chase you.

When a guy starts putting out the effort to chase a girl, it often doesn’t take very long for him to develop strong feelings for her, which often leads to him wanting to be with her even more.

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