Women like smart men and aren’t at all adverse to considering them as dating prospects.

That being said, she wants to date a smart man who has charm and nuance in how he speaks.

When a smart man talks with too much technicality, and lacks charm, nuance, wit, flair, etc., it makes conversations with him boring.

This is where smart men fail themselves while having conversations with women.

It’s easy to resort to being technical in how you talk to a woman, being that these are topics that you used to talking about with those in your social circle.

It is where you are comfortable.

Yes, women love the fact that you have such a knowledgeable and analytical mind, but they don’t want to be lambasted by it throughout a conversation.

Rather, have a blended style of conversation.

Instead of spending too much time talking about the intricacies of your profession and getting too technical in explaining how to go about using the latest tech gadget that she is thinking about purchasing, keep the conversations multifaceted.

Use humor to make her laugh.

Flirt with her to loosen her up.

Tease her to keep her humble.

Challenge her opinion to keep her on alert.

These are all techniques in conversation that keeps a woman entertained and engaged.

Smart men become their own worst enemies when they get too stuck on remaining in their safe zone as they are having a conversation with a woman.

You stick with the technical issues because that is where you are most knowledgeable and skilled.

That is where you are most confident.

Unfortunately, strictly sticking with this one-note style of conversation with women is what leads to boredom.

It’s alright to show how smart you are, but don’t dwell on these technical subjects throughout a conversation.

Yes, a woman appreciates being informed and learning a new nugget of technical information that she wasn’t aware of, but she also wants to be entertained when talking to a guy.

To get better at having multifaceted conversations, get into a routine of talking to people outside of those you normally talk to.

The people in your social circle are like you.

They are smart, and talk in technical terms.

You are used to talking to them in technical jargons.

Expand the range of people you talk to.

Get into the habit of initiating small talk with the person that is making your coffee at your favorite coffee shop or making your sandwich at your favorite deli store.

Have a conversation that isn’t entirely centered on what you are ordering.

Ask them about what they did over the weekend or where they are from.

This opens up conversation.

The substance and tenor of conversations you have with someone like this is totally different from the conversations you have with the smart people that are in your social circle.

This gives you a better read on what people at large like to talk about and what they respond to.

Keep this up.

Engage in small talk with a cashier that is cashing you out at a store or a person bagging your groceries.

Talk with a person sitting next to you in a bus, train, or rideshare.

As you get into a pattern of talking to people at large, your conversational skills improve.

You gain confidence in multifaceted conversation, making it easier for you to talk to women you are interested in with much greater skill.

Instead of sticking with a technical style in how you talk to women, you use an entertaining and blended style of conversation, thanks to your improved conversational skills.

This is the conversation style that has the most positive and profound effect on women.