Provide a picture to him of the people that are going to be at the party and the activities planned.
Although he isn’t obligated to go, applying subtlety to sell him on the fun aspects of the party is how you arouse his interest.
Do your homework first.
Be knowledgeable about the activities on hand, and those attending, including the host.
Obtain the details to a fault.
On the surface, your boyfriend’s jokes around your weight are intended to be harmless.
Beneath it, is an intention to wrest control and exercise a degree of power in his own life.
He is doing this consciously or unconsciously.
It is not unusual for a person to reach a period where they feel powerless in society.
This occurs often in life and causes subtle to brazen shifts in behavior.
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When you are feeling like you are being used, these are your instincts telling you that you are.
Step back and evaluate what you are feeling.
There is a reason why someone in your life is making you feel used.
Have you found yourself constantly aiding this person, doing them favors, without reciprocation on their part?
Repeatedly accommodating them, at the expense of your own convenience, and rarely receiving acknowledgment or reciprocation, is you being too nice and used.
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A boyfriend who punches the wall after disagreements, fights, or when upset for whatever reason, is a red flag.
Doing it once isn’t always a red flag.
All humans are capable of getting carried away while upset or after an argument.
Some go on an ice cream eating binge or watch a marathon of Friends on TV.
Others, punch a wall or throw something.
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There is no point getting caught up in slowly getting a girl to feel more comfortable around you when you are uncertain and insecure in yourself.
A girl feels more comfortable around you when you are comfortable with yourself first.
Feeling comfortable within yourself permits you to have more confidence and knowledge in making her feel more comfortable around you.
Kick it off with making her laugh.
When people laugh, it produces endorphins in their brains.