A girl who is warm one day and slightly standoffish the next day is playing a game with you.
She is gauging how interested you are in her and how much you are ready to tolerate.
Some girls play this game to maintain an upper hand.
It’s a desire to have control.
This protects her emotionally.
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When a guy stares but doesn’t smile, you remind him of someone and this has a profound effect on him.
Oftentimes, when we are reminded of someone, we are lost in our own thoughts for a moment.
This is the reason why he isn’t smiling as he is staring at you.
He is lost in thought.
In his head, he is replaying times and experiences that he had with the person that you remind him of.
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Lying about your feelings for him by telling him that you don’t have feelings for him is denial.
The better strategy is to disclose the truth about how you feel about him.
Doing this leaves you pondering about whether you made the right decision.
Think about seeing him with someone else and its heartbreaking impact.
At that heartbreaking moment, regret sets in, forcing you to ask yourself whether you did the right thing in telling him you don’t have feelings for him.
Hot and cold behavior is commonplace in romantic situations, given that we are human beings with undulating emotions.
Nevertheless, when someone you like is giving you hot and cold behavior on a daily basis, this isn’t normal and there is cause for concern.
The people who demonstrate this behavior every day towards you are doing so to keep you interested and guessing.
Indeed, human nature gravitates towards acquiring something it doesn’t have.
The person who acts hot and cold is depriving you of their attention, compelling you to desire their attention, consequently raising your level of interest.
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Having ebbs and flows in a relationship is commonplace, akin to an ocean wave that has a surge and recedes.
The surge is your relationship on a high, happy emotions are prevalent, and everything is fine and cool.
Followed by receding lows, where happy emotions are replaced with a sense of monotony or boredom.
Highs and lows are a characteristic of every relationship, including the healthiest ones.
Being on a high at all times in a relationship is impossible.