In this case, not breaking up with you continues to give him the benefits of having a girlfriend, even though he is unsure of what to do with the relationship at this stage.

At times, his relationship with you is weighed down by its problematic issues.

In moments where he feels the severity of this weight, he is giving you the cold shoulder.

He is showing that he prefers doing something on his own at the time, as he wants to be away from you.

He would rather go hang out with his friends, play a video game, fix his truck, go camping, etc.

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He seemed to be having a great time, but the harsh reality is that, what appears to be, isn’t always what is.

Although you believe he was having a great time with you, this isn’t assured.

The fun felt mutual, as he was laughing and goofing around with you.

This is what some guys do to avoid awkwardness in the moment.

He didn’t want to bore you on the date or bore himself.

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She is playing hard to get when she doesn’t give you enough information about herself, leaving you curious.

This is a method she employs to whet your appetite for her.

Giving you just enough information without overdoing it, entices you to keep coming back for more.

As she plays hard to get, it is difficult to get a hold of her.

No matter what you do, she is tough to pin down, as she rarely answers or returns your messages.

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When you aren’t ready for a relationship, finding excuses not to see him is what happens, as you haven’t defined the relationship.

In the back of your mind, the thought of seeing him festers.

A part of you remains curious about what being in a relationship with him would be like.

The more dominant part of you knows that a relationship with him isn’t what you want right now.

It is hard for you to come to terms with this.

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When he is constantly flipping back and forth between showing interest and a lack there of, he is toying with your emotions.

There are guys who do this, enjoying the feeling of power that it gives them.

He likes it when he has this effect on a girl.

He knows that as long as he gets away with this, he controls where everything leads.

It is like a rush to him that keeps him on that constant high.

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