Category Archives: Mixed Signals

When A Girl Doesn’t Want A Relationship But Doesn’t Want To Let You Go?

She wants to have the benefits that come with being in a relationship, without the commitment.

When A Girl Doesn't Want A Relationship But Doesn't Want To Let You Go?You mislead yourself when you latch onto the thought that she isn’t letting you go because she wants a relationship in the foreseeable future.

As you become increasingly emotionally invested in her, you keep making yourself believe that a relationship is imminent.

Her continuous reluctance to let you go keeps you in this funk, latching on to the hope that she is going to get so comfortable with you, she is bound to ask for a relationship in the foreseeable future.

This is so deceiving and time-consuming.

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Why Do Guys Say They Want To Be Friends But Then Say That They Really Want More Later On?

At the time that he said that he wanted to be friends with you, he thought that was the case in his mind.

Why Do Guys Say They Want To Be Friends But Then Say That They Really Want More Later On?This guy was either dating someone else at the time, or more interested in someone else.

Notwithstanding, he understood that things weren’t certain to work out with that person.

He does notice that he is attracted to you but doesn’t have a particularly strong level of romantic interest.

He decides that he would rather be friends at this time.

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Why Is He So Attentive When He Is With Me But When We Are Not Together I Rarely Hear From Him?

He is so attentive when he is with you but rarely communicates when you are not with him.

Why Is He So Attentive When He Is With Me But When We Are Not Together I Rarely Hear From Him?This has much to do with him seeing other girls.

Time is being allocated to each individual girl.

There are good odds you aren’t the only girl he is giving this treatment to.

When he is with each girl, he gives them his undivided attention but then he has to move on to the next and he only has so much time in the day.

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How Did Her Feelings Change So Quickly About Me In This Courtship?

Her feelings are temporary emotions, which means they are bound to change with the regularity of the sun raising and falling.

How Did Her Feelings Change So Quickly About Me In This Courtship?The potential of change is determined by how she feels that day, what her mood is, or how hopeful she is about something.

She needs to experience constant excitement to keep her feelings consistent.

When she is not indulging in that level of excitement, she gets bored or unhappy with you.

She feeds off of that particular feeling of curiosity and anticipation.

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He’s Giving Me Mixed Signals And I Don’t Know What To Make Of Them

When he is giving you mixed signals, he wants to be in full control of the relationship he has with you.

He's Giving Me Mixed Signals And I Don't Know What To Make Of ThemThe mixed signals keeps him at the head of this relationship and he gets to steer it in whichever direction he chooses.

He likes you, at least to some degree, but he isn’t ready to give in.

He doesn’t want you to become comfortable in this knowledge or to even be too strongly aware of it.

As long as you have a doubt in your mind about how he feels about you, you continue to think about him.

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