When you are this worried about a guy you like getting with someone else, there is no basis of trust.
This is never a good sign, especially when you are in a serious relationship with a guy.
It signifies that there is something amiss within the relationship.
Someone in the relationship is either not taking it as seriously as they should or you are both not giving this relationship the kind of attention it deserves.
Should this be a guy you aren’t serious with, but you have been with in the past, it is understandable that you are worried he will get with someone else.
Although it seems as though getting hurt by the people you get into relationships with is unique to you, it isn’t.
Getting hurt is part of the risk we take when we get into relationships, and this hurt is somewhat inevitable for many of us.
Your focal point mustn’t be on why you always get hurt.
This has the effect of a self-fulfilling prophecy where you enter every new relationship with fear and trepidation, preemptively jeopardizing the relationship by so doing.
It’s fear and anxiety that keeps you from fully trusting your partner.