You may be dealing with guys who have a fear of commitment.
If you have noticed that these guys were the same in their previous relationships, this may be your reason.
When you are dealing with guys like this, you are dealing with unpredictability. They may back out the moment they either reach a point where they feel like your feelings are much stronger than their own or you are no longer as intriguing.
At this point, it is no longer beneficial for them to continue being with you.
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You may be nervous about dating one of your best friends. You may be worried about how things are going to go.
How will your relationship work now that it is a romance? What would happen to your friendship if you were to break up? Would you be able to still maintain a real friendship after the fact?
What you need to do is relax.
If you are dating one of your best friends, you already have an idea of the kind of person you are dealing with. You knew them as a best friend before you became romantic partners.
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Many people get into romantic relationships this way.
They were friends initially but somewhere down the road they realized that they had developed romantic feelings for each other.
This is very common.
However, if you are in a situation where you are friends with someone, you shouldn’t rely on the hope that the both of you will ultimately become lovers.
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You should first define the kind of relationship you are in.
If the majority of the time that you two are together, it is about sex, there may be nothing more to this relationship than that.
Oftentimes, people in relationships like this will tell themselves that there has to be something more to the relationship and try to force themselves to believe it.
They will try to extrapolate the very few emotionally intimate moments in the relationship and tell themselves that there has to be more substance to the relationship.
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Having the DTR(Define The Relationship) talk should happen when you feel like it should.
You shouldn’t put a stringent timeline on it because every relationship develops differently.
There are some relationships that take time to develop and others that develop quite rapidly.
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What kind of relationship are you looking for?
Are you looking for a serious relationship with someone at this time or something more casual and open?
You should figure out what you want. This shouldn’t be a decision solely based on what the other person wants.
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It really depends on what the both of you have experienced.
Some people get into a relationship within days.
Others take weeks. Some others months.
The rare few take years.
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When you feel like you want to be exclusive in this relationship, you have the exclusive talk.
Hence, it really depends on how you feel and how far you have come.
Many people make the mistake of thinking that they shouldn’t bring it up because it would feel like they are being pushy or even desperate.
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He may only want a casual relationship when you notice that there is a lack of meaningful communication.
If the both of you only communicate from time to time and the discussions are very frivolous, he may be showing signs of disinterest in getting to know you on a much deeper and meaningful level.
A guy who just wants a casual relationship simply won’t commit himself to get to know you better or communicate on a regular and sustained basis.
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Let them know how you feel.
It is that simple.
I will say it again.
Let them know how you feel about them.
The biggest mistake that people make in this situation is procrastination and allowing doubt to impede their judgment.
Negative thoughts dominate their consciousness.
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