Such a definitive move takes the control away from him.
He would have much rather preferred you kept following him on social media so as to watch how you react to getting dumped.
By unfollowing him, you took a significant amount of power away from him.
Sometimes, a person has already mentally and emotionally checked out of a relationship long before it ended.
Breaking up with an ex 3 months ago doesn’t mean a person wasn’t already mentally and emotionally done with their ex.
It’s hard for people to let go of a relationship, especially when a lot was invested in it.
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As far as you were concerned, he was clear about the relationship being over and you were heartbroken by it.
A breakup wasn’t what you wanted.
Tears were prevalent upon hearing the news.
Besieging him to reconsider followed to no avail.
As you try to pick up the pieces and cultivate a path towards recovery, you notice that he is still following you on Instagram.
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Coming out of a year-long relationship is devastating for most people.
Especially a relationship that was very active.
So much was done together.
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It’s a form of control.
The threats and how you react to them in fright, give him a sense of security in knowing just how much control he has over your emotions.
With all the threats he has made to leave you, he still remains.