He isn’t emotionally ready for a relationship, or has lingering emotional issues from a previous relationship that he is struggling with.

Informing you that he can’t be in a relationship right now, is how he conveys that he isn’t emotionally available.

So many girls ignore it when a guy informs them that they can’t be in a relationship.

Unfortunately, they look at it as a challenge.

A challenge to win him over and make him ready for a relationship, now.

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Do what feels right, after a careful assessment of your situation with this guy that you are thinking about walking away from.

A situation where you have been doing most of the work as far as communication, warrants walking away.

There has to be an equal balance of give and take.

When the majority of the effort is coming from your end, it is unhealthy and exhausting.

There is no reason for him to exhibit so little effort when there is genuine interest in you.

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Discuss whatever issues that your relationship is suffering from with your partner immediately.

Taking a two week break is not going to change the issues or make them magically disappear.

All you are doing is going away from each other for a period of time and nothing more.

What is actually getting accomplished while you are taking that break?

You are away from each other.

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Sounds like you have been on a few dates with this person and you don’t see any future with them.

The chemistry isn’t there for you or you have lost interest for whatever reason.

Be honest with this person.

Advise them that you don’t believe this is going to work out, as your heart is no longer in it and you want to move on.

Be totally civil about it.

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Assess how you feel and ask yourself whether going forward with this guy is at all viable.

Determine where you stand mentally.

It is mentally exhausting making a relationship work when the other party isn’t putting in equal effort.

Is this the situation that you are in?

There is only so much to do.

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