A partner who has lost love for you and is dead set on moving on, doesn’t want to get back together, or is going to make excuses to extend the time apart.

Be careful that you aren’t beating a dead horse.

The time off has been for this reason.

There is something lacking in this relationship or rotting from within it that led to agreeing to some time off in the first place.

Think back to the months prior to the separation.

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We all have pasts, and many a time, our pasts affect our romantic relationships in a profound manner.

Your boyfriend has left you for someone else because of your past, and this is nothing unusual in relationships.

Without a time machine, our pasts are irrevocable.

This is why you mustn’t rewrite history out of desperation to get your boyfriend back.

Rewriting history is where you lie and embellish, in the hopes of convincing him that whatever upset him about your past or however it affected you, isn’t as bad as he thinks it is.

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A person preoccupies your mind when you spend too much time being idle, not engaging in activity.

Counter this idle time by occupying your time with activities that interest you.

When you fill your life with activities, it doesn’t leave you much time to think about this person.

Have you had a passion for something for a while that you have been holding off?

Now is the time to make that passion a reality.

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A breakup or rejection doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to still have you in his life as a friend.

You serve a purpose in his life.

The humor or adventurous spirit you possess, doesn’t vanish when a breakup or rejection happens.

That same girl exists and he isn’t ready to let her go.

To that end, that side of you that is fun, adventurous, witty, ambitious, affectionate, is what drew him to you in the first place.

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A heartfelt decision has been made to end your relationship with your boyfriend from this point moving forward.

With a heavy heart or not, you told him that the two of you should be friends.

This isn’t how to end a relationship properly.

Telling him that you should be friends leaves an opening.

It gives him hope that the relationship isn’t wholly over.

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