To stop dwelling and move on from someone, you must let go of this person in your mind without ambiguity.

This means that you let go of hope and nostalgia.

Having hope is one of the most prominent reasons why we tend to find it hard to let go of someone.

You dwell on the hope that things could change for the better, and hold on to this hope.

Unfortunately, this is the hope that makes it that much harder for you to accept the reality and true nature of things.

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Reflect on your relationship with him, while consciously circumventing the influence of your emotions.

Contemplating whether you should leave him has to be done with a clear head so that you don’t do something rash.

Acting on emotion renders you susceptible to making a miscalculation, one you regret later on.

That is no fun.

Reflect on what has been going on in the relationship.

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This hurt that you are feeling is an emotion, and an emotion is temporary in construct and durability.

When you realize that your emotion is temporary, there is no advantage in giving that emotion much power by dwelling on it.

Whenever the hurt assails you, take a moment to remember that the emotion you feel is temporary in nature.

The one thing that prolongs it, is you.

Your mind is the key.

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When your heart is no longer in it, and you have fought hard to make the relationship work, it’s time to call it quits and move on.

Discussions were had with this person and attempts were made to work things out.

This isn’t going anywhere.

The effort being put out is taking too much out of you, keeping you in a pressure cooker that is on the verge of exploding.

Keeping this up is unfeasible.

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When the effort is completely coming from your end and your partner doesn’t match how much you care, it is time to break up.

A relationship is a partnership.

The two parties involved have to be completely invested in it for it to be healthy and long-lasting.

A great amount of effort on your end to keep this relationship viable and move it in the right direction, without a reciprocating partner, is a waste of your energy and time.

Have you had a discussion with your partner about what he is doing?

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