You may want them to understand that they don’t have to be insecure with you. You believe that you are different and that they should feel comfortable trusting you.
You just know that you can be the solution if only they will let you in.
A defeatist attitude that questions why no one wants you is the reason why people aren’t considering you for dating or a relationship.
With this defeatist attitude, you are condemning yourself to going about your daily life with a negative countenance.
Your body language alone on a daily basis hampers you from getting people to want you.
Ask yourself about what you have to offer to people.
If you have specific aspects of your personality that are dynamic, or specific aspects of your life that are intriguing, you are better off letting them be known.
You haven’t recovered from the negative effect of this previous relationship.
This goes against how much you have been telling yourself that you have recovered from it.
While in that previous relationship, you believed that there was a healthy future ahead of you, but the relationship never turned out as you envisioned.
As a result of your history, you now have a lack of trust in people and you have blocked them out from your circle of trust.