Is A Woman Being Taller Than A Guy A Big Issue?

Is A Woman Being Taller Than A Guy A Big Issue?

In general, women have a preference to date tall guys or guys who are taller than them.

On the flip side, men prefer dating women who are shorter than them.

In a situation where a woman dates a guy that is shorter, the guy and the girl must have a healthy mental disposition and resolve to the whole idea of height in dating and relationships.

Society at large has made a judgment that the norm should be a woman who dates a taller man.

This is what we typically see in movies, romance novels, commercials and amongst the people we know in our own lives.

There is no divine rule book that declares that a woman must be shorter than a man for them to pair up.

However, society has deemed this to be the norm.

It doesn’t take account of other facets of attraction that play a strong hand in romance.

It ignores how that guy or girl makes each other feel good through laughter, conversation and playfulness.

It ignores other physical traits that have a greater importance to the guy or girl besides height.

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Physical traits such as his or her eyes, hair, facial bone structure, shape, etc.

As human beings, we are so multifaceted in what we find attractive in each other.

Yet, many still conform to what they believe to be societal norms.

Even though some women may like everything else about a guy, they choose not to date him based on his height.

It’s not that his height was a complete deal-breaker, but there is the fear of what society would think of her if she was walking around with a guy who was shorter than her.

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What would her friends think?

The same applies to a guy who would have had no major issue dating a taller girl.

He hesitates over it out of the fear that society would look down on him as inferior for not being taller.

The taller man is seen as the protector by society.

A man walking around with a taller girl makes it appear as though she is the one protecting him.

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This makes him reluctant to give that tall woman a shot at dating him, even though he knows that without the societal pressure, he would date her in a heartbeat.

Accordingly, this is why the mental disposition and resolve between the taller girl and the shorter man has to be one.

Both parties have to have the mentality that they don’t care what society dictates as the norm.

They find each other attractive in numerous ways, and a disparity in height has no bearing on their desire to date.

As a tall woman, it isn’t a big deal to date a shorter guy, as long as the both of you are on the same wavelength of thinking.

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This is nonnegotiable.

Dating a guy who doesn’t share a similar mental disposition and resolve in the area of how you both look at a height disparity, exposes you to a future fraught with complaining.

It won’t be long before he gives in to societal pressure and starts judging his relationship with you based on the reality that you are taller than him.

This is very unhealthy for a relationship and puts it on a path to ruin.

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