I’m 95% Sure She Likes Me But Is Too Shy To Do Anything About It. Should I Tell Her I Like Her?

I'm 95% Sure She Likes Me But Is Too Shy To Do Anything About It. Should I Tell Her I Like Her?

Yes you should.

If you are 95 percent sure that she likes you, she just might.

Indeed, she may not have done anything about it because she is shy.

However, something you do have to understand is that she may not necessarily react with excitement if you tell her that you like her.

Being that she is shy, she may still remain relatively guarded in her reaction.

This is why it is best to not only tell her that you like her but follow that up with asking her out to do something with you.

You really need to be clear about this.

One of the big mistakes that guys make in this situation is that they may let the shy girl know that they like her but they don’t really follow that up with asking her out.

In essence, they wait to see her reaction first or they are so proud of themselves for telling her that they like her that they just forget to ask her out altogether.

You really should avoid this trap as much as possible.

Knowing that you like her isn’t going to magically make her ask you out instead.

This is why it is important that you don’t become complacent with simply telling her that you like her.

You will need to be more proactive than that.

Also, you should ensure that you are prepared for the outcome of all of this.

Even though you may be 95 percent sure that she likes you, you aren’t still a 100 percent sure.

So, there is still a chance that she may not like you the way you think she does.

This means that you should be prepared for her to tell you that she doesn’t like you in that way.

It’s important that you don’t get upset over that.

You have to understand that sometimes it may seem like you have gotten all the signs in the world from a girl that would indicate that she likes you but that isn’t always what it turns out to be.

There are some girls who may give off those signs but they may do the same thing with other guys as well.

In other words, they are showing that they are open to being asked out and are letting the guys know that non-verbally.

If some other guy has already stepped in to ask her out before you, she may decide to go out with that guy instead of with you.

In the end, it’s just a case of timing.

If you had asked her out sooner, she may have agreed sooner and thereby gone out with you instead.

This is why you should always make your move when you have seen someone you want.

There is no point in wasting time.

This is the mistake so many guys make because they just keep waiting for the girl to do something, but it is unlikely that she will do what they are hoping she does.

Most girls aren’t going to make the first move on a guy.

So, this would be a lesson that you would have to learn the hard way if indeed the scenario I just described is what has occurred.


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