A guy that likes a girl and feels great whenever he is around her, is much more prone to wanting to settle with her, and not want to be with any other girl.
Never force the guy in this direction.
This is the mistake that so many girls make when it comes to the guy that they are in a relationship with or desire.
They put so much emphasis in wanting that guy to be with them, and only them, that they become too needy or clingy.
She does too much to get the guy to like her, intent on settling with him too prematurely.
A man has a higher tendency of settling with one girl when he feels that she won’t be a burden to him.
He doesn’t want to feel as though he constantly has to lift her spirits or give her attention, strictly to make her happy.
He doesn’t want to have the burden of being the one that determines how her mood is from day to day.
It is this feeling that makes a guy look to some other girl instead of you.
With this in mind, never act as though you are desperately in need of this guy’s attention.
Instead of giving him this impression, use a better approach by getting him to see how full and exciting your own life is.
This puts you in a much better light in his eyes.
He is impressed by how rich of a life you have, and it makes him want to be a part of it.
This gets him excited to be around you, anticipating what comes next.
He gets to discover new elements about life that he was unaware of, all due to the amount of richness and excitement that your life has.
On the flip side, if your life was all about him and wanting to be with him at every waking moment, you are literally making this guy feel trapped.
This is a trap that so many girls fall into when they intensely like a guy and want him to settle with her.
They want to spend all their time with him, irritating him by so doing.
This leads to him wanting to see you less, as you observe a drastic reduction in how much he contacts you or does activities with you.
A much better approach with a guy is to let him develop a natural excitement to get to know you as a potential romantic prospect.
You want him to think of you and be thrilled.
This happens when you show him how much of a catch you are by having such an incredible life.
This is what draws him to you, setting you apart from so many girls.
You are now that special girl that he wants to settle with.
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