Do I Still Have A Crush On Him Or Has The Feeling Gone Away?

Having to ask yourself this question is a strong indication that you once had a crush on him, but it is waning.

Do I Still Have A Crush On Him Or Has The Feeling Gone Away?Although a part of you feels that you still have a crush on him, this is becoming increasingly doubtful as each day goes by.

The thing is, you aren’t as emotionally invested in him as you once were.

This means that you are currently be in the process of losing your crush on him.

This happens when you have done nothing about your crush so far.

People make this mistake all the time when they have a crush on someone.

They wait for too long without doing anything constructive in courting their crush, or at least, letting their crush know how they feel about them.

If you haven’t acted to get this crush to like you yet, this is the reason why you aren’t even sure if you still have a crush on this guy.

What have you done about this thus far?

Have you taken any proactive steps towards getting to know this crush, letting this crush know how you feel about him, or telling him about who you are as a person?

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Have you asked out your crush?

If you haven’t done any of this, it’s inevitable that your crush on him wanes.

That is where you are at right now.

Be honest with yourself.

How badly do you want this crush?

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Truly, how badly?

A frivolous crush on someone doesn’t provide that much motivation to go after said person of interest.

Is this you?

Do you have a frivolous crush on this guy?

In the event that a frivolous crush is what you have had with this guy, it makes sense to let him go and move on.

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It’s unlikely that having a frivolous crush on someone is going to lead to you taking action about it by wooing said crush.

On the contrary, if you once had a strong crush on this guy, that is fading but still persisting, you are better off taking decisive action now.

I know you are afraid of how your crush is going to react to you making a move on him.

Naturally, you draw conclusions in your mind about how everything unfolds, and it is negative.

You tell yourself that your crush won’t like you.

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Indeed, it isn’t out of the question that you have taken too long to act on your interest in this crush, out of a fear that this crush won’t like you back.

That being said, being that you once had a strong crush on this guy, you shouldn’t let the fear of him not liking you hold you back.

Initiate a conversation with him and see where it leads.

Should there be chemistry, asking him out in the foreseeable future is warranted.

Mind you, there is a probability that he gets to ask you out first during this period of getting to know each other through conversation.

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Needless to say, taking action now is the only way you get to find out whether there is any romantic potential with this crush.

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