If you have to ask yourself this question, you may not still have a crush on him.
Having a crush on someone is normally a feeling so strong that you sense it quite often.
The moment you begin to ask yourself whether you still have a crush on him is the moment that you actually may realize that you don’t.
However, this isn’t always the case.
Indeed, you may still have a crush on him but as of now the feeling may actually not be as strong as it once was.
Hence, you may currently be in the process of losing your crush on him.
It may be because you have done nothing about your crush so far.
This is the danger that so many people who have crushes fall into.
They wait for too long without doing anything constructive in getting their crush or at least letting their crush know how they feel about them.
If you haven’t acted yet, this may be the reason why you aren’t even sure if you still have a crush on this guy.
You have to ask yourself about what you have done so far.
Have you taken any proactive steps towards getting to know this crush?
Have you taken any proactive steps towards letting your crush know how you feel about him?
Have you taken any proactive steps to get your crush to know who you are and what you are about?
Have you actually done the deed and just asked out your crush?
If you haven’t done any of this, then you will most likely get to a point where your crush on this guy will begin to wane.
That could be where you are at right now.
So, you really need to be honest with yourself right now.
How badly do you want this crush?
Truly, how badly?
If all you had was a frivolous crush to begin with, you may not have acted on it so far due to a lack of strong interest.
If this is the case, then perhaps you can let this crush go and move on.
However, if you did have a strong crush on this guy from the very beginning, you may be better off taking decisive action now.
Perhaps you are afraid of how your crush will react to you making a move on him.
You may begin to draw conclusions in your mind about how everything will unfold.
You may go to the negative and just tell yourself that your crush won’t like you.
Indeed, you may have taken this long to act on your interest in this crush because you are so worried that this crush won’t like you back.
If you have a strong enough crush on this guy, you shouldn’t let the fear of him not liking you hold you back.
You can start a conversation with him and see where things lead from there.
If there is chemistry, you can ultimately feel more secure in asking him out at that point.
Perhaps, he may even ask you out before you reach that point.
The point here is that you need to take action if you want something to come of this.
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