How Long Did It Take For You To Meet Your SO’s Family And Friends?

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How Long Did It Take For You To Meet Your SO's Family And Friends?

Meeting your significant other’s family and friends can happen relatively quickly in a relationship or it can take a while.

You should try not to fall into the trap of believing that there is a particular ironclad timeline that is required.

This is the danger that some people in relationships put themselves in.

They become so married to the idea of when they should be getting to see their significant other’s family and friends that they begin to put a strain on their relationship.

In other words, they forget that they need to continue working towards building a strong connection and camaraderie with their partner.

In essence, they become more concerned with the timeline than they are about growing their relationship in a healthy way.

If you fall into this trap, you will find yourself becoming impatient with your partner.

You may get angry at them for no substantive reason.

You got angry because, in the back of your mind, you are still wondering why the meeting with his family and friends hasn’t happened yet.

You may even take this as far as refusing to be as affectionate as you were before with him in the hopes that he gets the point that you are upset that you haven’t met his family and friends yet.

All of this behavior would actually work against you as opposed to helping you.

You would begin to make him feel uncomfortable around you because he knows that you will give him this kind of negative attitude.

As a result, he may begin to hang out with you a lot less.

He may start finding reasons to avoid talking to you or being in your presence just so that he doesn’t find himself unhappy due to your negative attitude.

He may start hanging out a lot more with his friends and family just so that he can avoid you.

Obviously, this isn’t what you want.

You would have accomplished the opposite of what you want by behaving this way.

This is why it is so important that you don’t focus on how long it will take or it is taking to meet your significant other’s family and friends.

Be very careful not to use the relationships of your friends as an example either.

This is another trap that people in your position fall into.

Your friends may have met the significant others of their partners within a relatively short period of time and as a result you may believe that you should have the same experience with your own significant other.

However, you are in a different relationship than they are.

The dynamics of your relationship are going to be different.

Hence, you shouldn’t judge your own relationship and when you should be meeting your significant other’s family and friends based on what your friends have experienced in their relationships.

Again, this would only make you resentful of your partner if they haven’t done it yet and thereby you may begin to jeopardize the relationship.

Allow your relationship to progress in a natural way.

Sooner or later, you will be meeting your significant other’s family and friends.

The only time there is cause for worry here is if your significant other is going out of his way to avoid this meeting from happening by constantly breaking arrangements to meet them that you had both already planned beforehand.

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