Beware of getting into a perennial loop of talking to one another on Tinder over weeks and months with no face to face meeting in sight.

Although it is just very friendly between you right now, it’s time for you to initiate more.

No, don’t wait on him to do it.

Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be anything elaborate.

Asking him out to coffee or to meet at a park is sufficient enough.

Take the initiative now, if you want things between you to go beyond Tinder.

As aforementioned, it’s not unusual for people to meet through Tinder and suffer a perennial loop of conversation that never leads to a face to face meeting.

This is what awaits you when you don’t take the initiative to ask this guy to meet up with you.

Ask yourself about why you are on Tinder to being with.

Are you purely looking for an online friendship and nothing beyond that?

If that is the case, you don’t have to initiate anything. In leaving it as is, the conversation is going to continue until it inevitably fizzles out.

In the event you want more than a friendship, conversation is bound to fizzle out too, if you don’t take action to move your interaction with this boy beyond Tinder.

Conversation on a dating app that persists for weeks or months without a face to face meeting have a tendency to fizzle out.

This boy has had matches with different women.

As he is talking to you, he is doubly distracted by his various matches.

In not initiating more by asking him out, you run the risk of him connecting with a different match, and losing interest in you.

This is a match that he decides to meet in real life and the connection between them grows that much stronger.

Once this happens, the communication between you and this boy is bound to fizzle out that much faster, until it is extinguished completely.

Time isn’t on your side.

One way or the other, the longer you wait without initiating more, the greater the likelihood his interest in you wanes, until it fizzles out.

Do you have a sense of urgency now?

It’s imperative you make a move.

Staying friendly with him, and prolonging this conversation, doesn’t guarantee that he is destined to ask you to meet him in real life.

For one, it isn’t a given that he knows why he is on Tinder in the first place.

To this end, it is easier for him to maintain this Tinder friendship with you over having to commit to anything, unless you give him a reason to.

Tinder is a place where people get lost in the wilderness of endless dating options.

The longer you keep a conversation going on without taking steps to meet offline, the likelier the conversation fizzles out and his romantic interest transfers to someone else.

Know why you are on Tinder.

When you are unequivocal about this, it is easier for you to do what needs to be done.

In a scenario where you are only on Tinder for friendship, accept this and take the appropriate steps to maintain a platonic friendship with this boy.

Do this by moving communication to a different medium, such as by phone or social media.

If you are on Tinder for romance, take steps towards obtaining that goal by asking this guy out to meet up with you, as opposed to waiting on him to do it.

The whole objective of being on Tinder is to find what it is that you are looking for in terms of relationships.

Knowing what you want gives you a greater amount of ammunition to find like-minded individuals who are looking for the same relationship.