Your instincts are your true self, sending you the subliminal message of what you must or must not do.

Never ignore your instincts.

Instincts are intuitive, using a host of your life experiences that aren’t at the forefront of your thoughts, to caution you about something.

This caution is lodged in your subconscious.

Our instincts talk to us, warning us, but we ignore them because our hearts push us in the opposite direction.

A direction that isn’t founded on reason, but emotion.

Your instincts are there for a reason.

If you have had multiple experiences with him that led to disappointment, your instincts are telling you that these outcomes are a red flag.

You become nervous, knowing that he isn’t what you have been hoping for.

The natural effect is that you want to give up on him.

Yet, you don’t.

He sweet-talks you back into thinking that there is hope.

Even though your instincts are telling you that he has had multiple opportunities in the past to do right by you, and has failed every time.

At what point do you realize that it is pointless to keep giving him chances?

Human beings are creatures of habit, which means that we have a tendency to repeat offenses.

No amount of sweet words makes up for the fact that he has disappointed you in the past, over and over again.

He wants a chance with you, having realized what he has lost and wanting it back.

In a scenario like this, he primarily worried about losing a good thing, as opposed to cherishing a good thing.

Succinctly, it is all about him and what you can do for him emotionally and physically.

He wants to keep that in his life, realizing that you are the best thing going right now.

It doesn’t mean that he won’t take the opportunity to leave you behind the moment someone better comes along, leaving you heartbroken.

You had taken a chance on him, listening to what your heart was telling you, and not what your instincts were telling you.

Inevitably, you were left with a broken heart.

He pursued that new girl, getting into a relationship with her, leaving you behind.

After a while, he discovers that his new relationship with this new girl is not fulfilling him.

This is when he is suddenly running back to you begging for forgiveness and a second chance.

At this venue, your instincts tell you that you shouldn’t take him back.

But your heart, which is still in love with him or cares about him deeply, tells you that you should take him back and give him another chance.

So you do.

History repeats itself as yet another female distraction comes into his life, and he chooses to pursue her.

Sadly, he is confident in the fact that you have taken him back a number of times, and will take him back again if his new relationship with this new girl doesn’t work out.

This is his frame of mind, given how many chances you have given him in the past.

In the end, you wind up the loser and he keeps getting what he wants.

If your instincts are making you nervous and wanting to give up, listen to them.