A guy that is rushing into a relationship with you, is triggering a number of red flags that mustn’t be ignored.

For one, he is worried that you are going to lose interest quickly and move on to another guy.

This means that he doesn’t have much confidence in himself and his ability to keep you interested.

If you were to get into a relationship with him, he would ultimately bore you, getting you to a point where there is no longer any reason to get excited about the relationship.

Fundamentally, he has become complacent with you and feels that his job is done.

He believes that now that you are in a relationship with him, he doesn’t have to bother with being more adventurous in the relationship or keeping it fun.

He settles in to the belief that he has you and doesn’t have to worry about any guys taking you away from him, given that you would already be taken.

A guy who is rushing into a relationship is on the rebound from a previous relationship that he has never gotten over.

He is hurt as an after-effect of a past relationship and that may have negatively affected his sense of self-esteem.

As a result, he is in a hurry to get into a new relationship, so as to trick himself into believing that the previous relationship never happened.

He wants to quickly replace that relationship with a new relationship, believing that it will get rid of the hurt and the pain.

All he is doing is putting a band aid on an enormous wound.

He hasn’t dealt with his emotional issues from that previous relationship.

In getting into a relationship with you, you are eventually going to be on the receiving end of his emotional angst.

As the new relationship progresses, he shows this emotional angst over and over again, until you are babysitting his emotions with an intent to make him feel better about himself or stop being so negative.

This is bound to drag you down emotionally, leaving you questioning your own sense of self-esteem and identity.

As someone that believes he is under a microscope from his peers, he wants to fit in.

He doesn’t want to keep being the one who doesn’t have a girlfriend among his peer group.

He wants his friends or peers to finally look at him as someone who is desired by someone else.

Unfortunately, this attitude only means that you are his ticket out of what he considers his odd and obscure existence.

You are nothing more than a pawn.

A pawn that he uses to convince himself that he is normal.

You don’t want to be a pawn in anyone’s game.

If he isn’t taking the time to get to know you, but is rushing into a relationship with you instead, it is a red flag that you should seriously consider, before taking a chance on getting into a relationship that you later regret.

Replacing whatever is bothering him with a relationship is not the right approach to handling a personal issue.

This is how some guys run away from problems.

They figure that by getting into a relationship quickly, they get to cover up whatever emotional issues they have been grappling with in their own personal life.

Should he succeed in getting into a relationship, his partner ends up being the one who suffers the most, given that he never resolved his emotional issues from his previous relationship.