When you fall into a pattern of having a lot of girl best friends but not a girlfriend, you are letting yourself fall into platonic relationships with these girls.

This is where you have made the blunder of getting her to see you as a friend, and only as a friend.

Without informing a girl about your romantic intentions early on, she is thinking that all you are looking for is friendship.

Many guys fall into the dreaded friend zone for this reason.

These guys are so reluctant to let the girl know how they feel about her, or ask her out, the girl is left with no choice but to believe that the guy only sees her as a friend.

Does this sound like you?

Listen, the first step in finding a solution to this problem is in acknowledging what you’ve been doing.

Look back on how you started these relationships with these girls.

Unfortunately, you keep doing the same thing, leading to the same outcome.

In lieu of this, get into the habit of letting girls know about your romantic interest in them earlier on.

To further facilitate this, avoid constantly surrounding yourself with girls that would never see you as a romantic prospect.

These are girls who are okay with being your friend but nothing more.

Take note of the girls who end up becoming your best friends.

Are these girls that are inclined to date a guy like you?

Are these girls you know would get excited with the idea of dating you?

Observe the caliber of guys these girl best friends are dating.

Are those guys anything like you?

Do they resemble or act like you?

Do they have a similar social lifestyle that you do, or one that is totally different?

Should you realize that the guys these girls have a tendency to date are nothing like you, there lies yet another reason why these girls end up being your best friends and nothing more.

These girls date guys who are different from you in multiple ways.

Take a hint from this.

These guys are a representation of what these girls like to date.

Which means, you aren’t their type at all.

Choosing to have a friendship with you as your girl best friend, isn’t the same as having a romantic interest in you.

They have no inclination to pursue or entertain a romantic relationship with you.

In learning that they have a tendency to date men who are different from you, you are better off seeking out girls who are open to your looks, personality and lifestyle.

Stop spending so much of your time with these girl best friends.

Take a proactive role in your dating life by seeking out girls that aren’t in your friend circle.