When you fall into a pattern of having a lot of girl best friends but not a girlfriend, it is typically because you are allowing yourself to fall into platonic relationships with these girls.
You allow them to see you as a friend and only as a friend.
This is the problem that you are having.
If you don’t let a girl know what your romantic intentions are earlier on, she will begin to believe that all you are looking for is friendship.
This is why so many guys fall into the dreaded friend zone.
They are so unwilling to let the girl know how they feel about her or ask her out that the girl is left with no choice but to believe that the guy only sees her as a friend.
Does this sound like you?
Listen, the first step in finding a solution to this problem is in acknowledging what you’ve been doing.
You will have to look back on how you started these relationships with these girls.
There is a good chance that you will notice that you keep doing the same thing.
You keep following the exact same scenario.
You have got to implement a change of behavior if you hope to put a stop to this pattern by letting girls know about your interest in them earlier on.
Another reason why you may find yourself with a lot of girl best friends but not a girlfriend may be because you may be constantly surrounding yourself with girls that could never see you as a romantic prospect.
They may be willing to be your friend.
However, they may not be willing to take it any further than that.
You have got to start observing the kind of girls you are ending up being best friends with.
Are they truly girls that would want to date you?
Are they girls you know would get excited with the idea of dating you?
Take a look at the kind of guys these girl best friends are actually dating.
Are those guys anything like you?
Do they have a resemblance to you?
Do they act like you do? Do they have the same kind of social lifestyle that you do or is it totally different?
There is a chance that the guys many of your girl best friends tend to date are nothing like you.
They are so different in just about every way.
Take a hint from this.
These are the kind of guys that these girl best friends would rather date.
This means that you are not their type at all.
As I mentioned earlier, they may be willing to have a friendship with you as your girl best friend but they wouldn’t be willing to pursue any kind of romance with you.
It is very important that you take a look at the kind of guys that these girl best friends are dating.
This could really give you a clue as to why they keep ending up only being your girl best friends.
If you discover that this is the case, you would be better off beginning to meet other girls that may be open to dating a guy like you.
This means that you will need to stop spending so much of your time with these girl best friends.
You will have to start taking a proactive role in your dating life.
You will have to start finding girls that feel that they can connect with you, your personality and lifestyle.
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