How Long Should I Wait To See If He Wants To Hang Out?

Instead of waiting around, hoping he asks you to hang out, be the one to ask him to hang out.

How Long Should I Wait To See If He Wants To Hang Out?Waiting around on him to ask you to hang out keeps you in limbo.

In this state, you are wasting precious time wondering when that request is forthcoming.

There are guys who won’t act, regardless of whether they feel the desire to.

They are shy, worried about how you react to a proposal to hang out.

There is a hesitation to ask you to hang out, based on a fear of ruining the friendship they have with you

It’s imperative that you don’t sit on the sidelines with your fingers crossed feeding the birds.

This helps no one.

All it does is keep you stuck with no hope in sight.

Is this what you want?

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Surely, it isn’t.

As scary as it sounds, act now.

The danger of waiting for him to ask you to hang out, is in how indefinite it is.

You wait for so long that feelings change.

Over time you won’t be feeling the same amount of interest and excitement that you are having now.

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Right now, you are so caught up on how interested you are in him, you falsely believe that this feeling is going to persist.

Unfortunately, with time, feelings change.

The level of interest you have in him at the moment is destined to dissipate with time, the longer you wait to see if he wants to hang out.

Ditto for him too.

Regardless of whether he wants to hang out with you at this moment, he is bound to lose interest in you as time goes on and nothing has happened.

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This is why you mustn’t wait.

Do what has to be done.

Don’t get carried away with your expectations either.

People are too quick to complicate this by making enormous assumptions, and end up never hanging out with the person they were interested in.

They assume that by hanging out, they are taking an enormous step in the relationship, and that commitment is on the horizon.

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Commitment isn’t assured.

Keeping this in mind, don not put so much emphasis on what comes next.

When you put so much emphasis on what it means to hang out, you make it harder to be in the moment.

Having lofty expectations about the implications of “hanging out”, adds too much pressure on yourselves.

In lieu of lofty expectations, be realistic and stay in the moment.

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If something greater comes of it, great.

If something greater doesn’t come of it, fine.

To conclude, ask him to hang out, and let the chips fall where they fall.

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