Would You Ask Him Out On A Date If You Were Me?

It’s so much better to ask him out on a date, than perennially wonder about what he would have said if you had summoned up the courage to ask him.

Would You Ask Him Out On A Date If You Were Me?Right now, you are single and available.

Asking him out confirms whether he is single and available too.

Don’t fall into the trap of making yourself believe that this isn’t appropriate.

Instantly, you are doubting yourself on account of believing that he should be the one to do it, being that he is a man.

After all, that is tradition.

Notwithstanding, you have to face the reality of your situation.

You have reached a point where you are considering asking him out for a reason.

You clearly have feelings for this guy.

There is something about him that makes you think about him on a regular basis.

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No matter how much you focus on a variety of things, thoughts of him return throughout your day.

You are attracted to him and yearn for more.

This calls for you to take a risk in asking him out.

In asking him out, you confirm whether he is single and available, and this keeps you from wasting any more time thinking about him without acting.

To keep delaying this, is to risk losing out on him to someone else who had the courage to step up and ask him out.

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Time is such a critical factor.

It seems infinite, but it isn’t.

Remaining stuck on whether you should ask him out or not can only play out for so long.

If he is single and open to dating you, there is a finite window of time for you to ask him out.

With each passing day, it tightens.

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Eventually, it closes completely.

Once this window closes, he has moved on emotionally and has started dating someone else.

Once this happens, it’s inevitable you regret not making a move while the window was open.

This is why you shouldn’t fall into the trap of believing that you can take all the time in the world on this.

You can’t.

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Your time is now.

There is no reason for you to delay any further.

Why would you delay?

Yes, I know, you are worried about the whole ordeal and how he reacts.

Be aware that all of your worry is based on internal insecurity, and as a consequence, what your anxious mind is making you believe.

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Don’t listen to the false stories your mind is telling you.

Be aware that these stories are fabricated and have no bearing on how he reacts to what you say.

The greater attention you pay to these fabricated stories, the greater the power you give them.

Do yourself a favor and refrain from doing that.

Ask him out.

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Once you ask him out, you either get a yes or no.

Either way, you have gotten your answer and you get to move forward with life.

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