Consider why you want to be romantic with her.
When romance doesn’t really fit into a relationship, it isn’t necessary.
Unless, you love the concept of romance.
Was romance a big part of your previous relationships, and is that what you want from this girl?
Not every girl is the same.
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Some girls like a lot of romance, others like romance in small doses, and others detest romance altogether.
Be accepting of what the girl wants and appreciates.
It is not wise to force-feed romance when the girl in question is clearly not into it.
This brings us back to your dilemma.
If it “seems” like she thinks romance is cheesy, then you don’t know that for sure.
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You are making an assumption based on a comment that she made or the body language she exhibited when something romantic was said or done.
Knowing for sure whether she appreciates romance before making a full-on assumption that she doesn’t is a better approach.
Since romance is important to you and you want to romance this girl, your first task is to determine where she stands with this concept.
Start small.
Get her a small gift and observe how she responds to that.
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She shows that she loves the gift when she keeps referencing it in conversations with you, especially without prompting.
This is appreciative behavior on her part and she is demonstrating that she is open to what else you have to show her.
From here, send her a heart symbol or a short romantic message in your text messages to her from time to time.
When she reciprocates by sending you a heart symbol or a symbol of passion in return, she is responding to what you are doing positively.
Remember to do this in small doses at the outset.
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You shouldn’t be bombarding her with these texts too blatantly.
Next, give her short massages.
From time to time, put your hands on her back and shoulders and give her a massage.
Observe how she responds to this.
Does she close her eyes in satisfaction?
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Moan?
This means she enjoys it and is open to more of it.
As she gets used to you making her feel this good with your hands, she naturally requests massages from you without prompting in the future and wants to give you massages too.
A girl that responds well to everything aforementioned is open to romance with you.
You broke her into it gradually.
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Nevertheless, if she doesn’t respond positively to these cues and doesn’t reciprocate, you have to accept that romance isn’t for her.
You can find other ways to have a fun and thrilling relationship without romance in it.
Open yourself up to that too.
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