A boyfriend who has a pattern of leaving his things at your place, is showing you that he is seriously thinking about this relationship, and is letting his guard down.
This is especially true if he is leaving things at your place that you know he will miss.
When he is leaving precious items at your place, he is showing you that he is trusting you increasingly.
This doesn’t mean that he is looking to move in with you without a doubt, but it does mean that he is getting fond of you.
Furthermore, he wants to get you to think of him when he is not around.
This is because he thinks about you frequently when you are not around him.
When he leaves his things at your place, he wants you to have that reminder whenever he is not around.
He wants you to call him and tell him what he left, just so that he knows that you noticed.
He is a boyfriend that is sending a number of subliminal messages by leaving his things at your place.
The level of trust he has for you has grown, as he is more comfortable with you now than he has ever been, and he wants you to remember him when he is not around by leaving those items.
He likes it when he leaves an item behind and you mention it in conversation.
This tells him that you thought about him in that moment.
You thought about him when you saw that he left his watch behind.
He likes it when he leaves his sweatshirt behind, and you remind him about it later on.
In his mind, he envisions you sniffing the scent of his sweatshirt while he was away.
Being that he thinks about you on a regular basis when you are not around, he is hoping that by leaving his things at your place, you think about him too.
Now, to get a better idea on whether he is serious about moving in with you, pay close attention to what he says.
He is going to drop hints in conversation.
If he has an apartment lease that is coming to an end of its term, he asks you about whether you think he should renew the lease.
A guy that brings up the end of his lease as a topic of conversations with his girlfriend over and over again, is a guy that is gauging where she stands.
He is hoping that you tell him to move in with you.
When he repeatedly talks about how tired he is of his roommate, he is gauging you, hoping that you feel sorry for him and suggest moving in with her.
Additionally, he is conducting much of his personal business around where you live.
This is when he is taking his laundry to the laundromat that is close to where you live, eats at the local mom and pop restaurant that is around the corner from where you live.
Consequently, he builds relationships with the people in your community such as your neighbors or mailman, knowing several of them by name.
This behavior signals that he is getting comfortable with the area in which you live, and hopes that you encourage him to move in with you as a result.
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