If you are mentally ready and he is single and available, you should go for him.
It is your last year of college and you have probably been procrastinating.
There are no more chances after this.
In other words, the kind of relationship dynamic you have with him will most likely change after college.
After college, new college graduates enter the working world and begin to work towards building their professional careers.
They move from one state to another to find the best career opportunities.
That college setting is no longer your backdrop.
You won’t see him walking around campus, or in student halls, or in class.
All of that will be over.
But not yet.
It is your last year of college.
Take advantage of this moment.
Before you do this, be mentally ready.
You shouldn’t go for him when you are of the belief that you will have no other better options in your dating life after college is over.
Believing you will never ever find someone like him is misguided.
Don’t approach this with a sense of desperate desire.
It’s too needy.
This has you fixating on what a relationship with him would do for you, rather than focusing on how it would benefit the two of you.
In a scenario where you have recently gotten out of a relationship, take a step back to ensure that you are clear-headed.
Many people who get out of relationships believe that by getting right into another one, they will recover from their breakup a lot faster.
This isn’t the right philosophy.
Never use another relationship as your remedy to help you get over the pain of a relationship that just ended.
In doing so, you are applying undue pressure on a new relationship and this isn’t fair to your new partner.
If this guy is single and available, he is fair game.
Be sensitive to how he wants the process to unfold.
He prefers a slower pace.
He wants to get to know you better before getting into anything serious.
Since it is your last year of college, you are tempted to be overzealous or overaggressive, unaware you are pushing too hard to make the relationship happen.
It being your last year, you are forcing the issue, believing that time is against you.
When he feels like you are trying too hard to make this relationship happen too quickly, you push him away.
He senses desperation and selfishness in you.
To avoid this, let this relationship unfold naturally, without forcing anything.
That gives you the best shot at romance with him before your last year in college is up.
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