It just depends on the way in which they are being friendly.
If you notice that these girls tend to smile at you a lot and flirt with you, there is a good chance that some of them would consider dating you.
You have to observe how they act when they are being friendly.
If they flirt with you a lot, give you compliments and touch you from time to time, there is a good chance that they would date you.
However, you do need to make moves.
The danger a number of guys in your position tend to make is in procrastination and in not being aggressive.
A girl will only be friendly and flirty with you for so long.
If you don’t return her energy and make a real move to get to know her or ask her out on a date, she may quickly lose romantic interest.
This is why you really have to start making more aggressive steps if you want to date these girls.
You can easily fall into the friend category with these girls when you don’t act.
Girls will often give you some signs to show that they are interested in you.
As I mentioned earlier, when they are quite friendly and smile your way often without you doing anything to earn that smile, there is a good chance that they would consider dating you.
However, you do have to take those hints and make the next move.
Most girls are not going to give you everything.
They want to be chased.
They want you to get the point and start playing along.
She would want you to flirt back.
She would want you to return her compliments.
Most importantly, she would want you to ask her out on a date.
She is most likely not going to be the one to do it. She wants you to do it.
This is where you really have to ensure that you do what needs to be done.
Try not to get too caught up in analyzing these girls.
This is a mistake that a lot of guys make.
They just overanalyze or overthink.
You can’t keep trying to figure out the girl. The more you ponder, the more time you waste.
Don’t be afraid to make an aggressive move by asking out one or more of these girls.
This may be what they are waiting for.
You should make it a point to ask out the next girl you have this kind of experience with.
Instead of just nodding your head at her or looking away, start a conversation with her.
Use her body language as your guide while you converse.
If she continuously leans into you or preens by fiddling with her handbag or clothing, there is a decent chance that she is waiting on you to ask her out at that moment.
You should do it.
Once you have gotten this first one out of the way, it will be much easier for you to ask the next girl out if need be.
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