A girl who really likes a guy can act uncomfortable around him.
She starts acting this way because she may not want to appear to be too obvious that she likes him.
She may also worry that he doesn’t feel the same way about her.
This kind of doubt and insecurity can make her feel uncomfortable whenever she is around him.
A girl would often want to observe this guy from afar as opposed to be so close to him.
She may worry that if she were this close to him she may do or say something that will turn him off.
She doesn’t want to put herself in this position.
It is hard for her to look past these insecurities.
She may be totally comfortable when she is around other guys that she doesn’t like.
She can easily be herself because she doesn’t have any romantic expectations of these guys.
However, when she is around the guy she likes, there are some expectations.
She may not want to allow herself to believe it but there are.
Her expectations begin to interfere with her reality.
She may have already envisioned herself with this guy as a couple.
She may have already used her imagination to surmise the kind of relationship they would have.
She may have allowed herself to get carried away with these visions and images.
This is how she has set expectations.
Now that she is around the guy, she may begin to perceive those expectations as they interfere with her thoughts.
As these expectations become more and more prevalent in her mind, she may start getting nervous.
She knows that for now it is all fantasy. Her reality is something totally different.
She doesn’t even know if this guy feels the same way about her.
Up until this point, he hasn’t shown that he does.
Thereby, she begins to become uncomfortable because she knows that her reality is a lot different from the fantasy that she has created in her mind.
What’s worse is that she doesn’t have the nerve to approach him or talk to him.
There may be a part of her that wants to so badly and yet she holds herself back.
Perhaps she has even been preparing herself to do so.
Perhaps she has been trying to gain the confidence to talk to the guy for the last few weeks.
She believes that today will be the day and yet she realizes that she is too afraid to do it.
She just can’t summon up the courage to start a conversation or introduce herself.
You know that this girl likes you when you often catch her looking your way.
She may look away the moment she notices that you have seen her but she will look back again at some point.
If you have noticed this kind of behavior and also the fact that she tends to act uncomfortable around you, you are dealing with a girl who likes you but is worried about whether you like her back.
Hence, she creates chaos in her thoughts.
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