It is not bad at all.
You like a variety of qualities that she has besides that of her attractiveness.
By not believing she is very attractive, you are being candid with yourself.
However, you still like her for a reason.
It is how she makes you feel.
How she talks to you and relates to you.
How she has been there for you in difficult times.
You believe you share something in common with her that you normally don’t share with girls you regard as more attractive.
This kind of connection or experience can be very potent.
It makes up for whatever deficiencies she has in her level of attractiveness.
People are attracted to each other for different reasons.
It isn’t always about how attractive the other person is.
There are various qualities or characteristics that draws a person to another.
You have found something else about this girl that makes you still like her despite the fact that she is not very attractive.
Don’t worry about what people think.
This is where you worry that your friends would not approve of her because she is not as attractive as she should be.
You are worried that your family would feel the same way, and that people in public would look at you strangely, being such an odd pair.
These opinions should not be your concern.
When you worry more so about what everyone else thinks about her as opposed to how she is making you feel, you give in to the temptation of not letting this relationship develop naturally.
You are hesitant to take her out or show her to your friends and family.
You are hesitant to let yourself know her more, worried she doesn’t have what it takes to be a future mate.
Instead of letting yourself get sucked into what you are afraid people think about her, focus on how she makes you feel and how happy she makes you.
Think about how much you enjoy her company and how she often knows what you are thinking before you have even mentioned it.
People make the mistake of being with someone solely based on that person’s physical appearance.
These are the relationships that tend to end in bitterness because they were based on superficial desires.
A person’s true personality is what makes for a long-lasting and happy relationship and not what they appear to look like on the outside.
Focus on what is working for you and you should be fine.
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