Some people aren’t attracted to big noses.
They look at a big nose as a deal breaker and a turn off.
Try as they can, they struggle to get over the fact that this person has a big nose.
They aren’t used to dating people with big noses and worry that while in conversation with this person, their entire focus would be fixated on that person’s big nose.
The big nose is too distracting.
It’s too embarrassing to be seen talking to someone with a big nose.
Everyone in the vicinity would be more preoccupied on the big nose than on how attractive they appear as a couple.
Yes, there are dating prospects who worry about this sort of thing.
It is how they think and part of what makes them who they are.
Your job isn’t to worry about turning these people off on account of your big nose.
It is unwise to spend too much time with people like this in the first place.
You already know whether you are dealing with someone like this early on.
As you talk to them, they are unnervingly fixated on your nose, grimacing.
You can’t have a decent conversation with them without them making a comment about your big nose.
As long as you entertain this, it’s inevitable you become self-conscious after a while.
You realize that this person is not listening to your story.
Past conversations weren’t taken seriously.
They don’t remember them.
You realize that you are the one who is initiating conversations or requesting dates.
If you have the misfortunate of arriving at this point, take a pause.
Is this the person you want to be devoting so much of your time to?
Is this person worth the privilege of getting to know you when they have shown such disrespect?
Of course this person shouldn’t be someone you devote this much time to when they have treated you in this manner.
Let go of this person and move on to someone else.
This new person doesn’t insult you by making discourteous comments about your big nose or obsessing over your nose during conversations.
This person isn’t forgetting details from past conversations, mesmerized by your big nose.
They remember those conversations and ask you follow-up questions.
This is a person who doesn’t care about your nose.
Someone who genuinely cares about you and the time you spend with them.
This is the person you talk to.
This person exists.
You have to get passed your insecurity in believing that every guy would be turned off by your big nose.
Some guys have an issue with big noses and some don’t.
Focus on the guys who don’t.
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