When he likes you a lot, he is attentive to what you have to say and is likelier to remember the stuff you tell him.
Therefore, it comes down to how much the boy likes you.
Nonetheless, he doesn’t remember everything.
He doesn’t necessarily remember the parts that you believed were the most noteworthy.
A guy is selective in what he remembers.
He is likelier to remember something that you mentioned that either shocked him or he related to.
When you ask him about what he thinks about a particular topic that was discussed in the past, and he doesn’t remember, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he wasn’t paying attention or isn’t interested in you.
More than likely, he remembers something else.
He is likelier to remember that you told him you pick your nose when no one is watching than that you told him about what your favorite season is.
This doesn’t seem like the best thing to remember but a guy is selective in what he remembers.
While you recall everything that he told you, he is a lot more selective in what he recalls, as this is how he functions.
He recalls that you told him how much you love watching or partaking in dirt bike riding because he can relate to that.
He is a fan of dirt bike riding as well.
This part of the discussion is what sticks out to him and he is prone to remember it.
It is like a part of his brain lights up when he hears this and leaves a lingering effect on his memory.
When a guy can relate to you with something, he is likelier to remember the stuff that was said in relation to that connection as opposed to topics of general conversation.
I know that this is wearisome for you to grasp, as you normally remember everything that was said in a discussion, whether the topics were shocking or not, or whether they related to you or not.
A guy’s mind works differently.
As long as he does remember certain parts of the discussion that he can then go on to talk about in retrospective detail, don’t be too worried that he didn’t remember all of it.
The boys who don’t remember the stuff that you tell them entirely are the ones who are either not very serious about you or are talking to many girls at the same time.
When his mind is too concerned with the next girl he is about to talk to after he is done talking to you, he is not entirely present.
He won’t remember details.
It is arduous for a guy to remember past conversations when he is talking to several girls at the same time.
You discover that he is mixing things up.
He mentions something you said in a past conversation that you never said.
He has confused a discussion with another girl with a discussion he had with you.
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