It may be the kind of guys you tend to talk to or be attracted to.
When there is a pattern of guys always lying to you, there is a reason for that.
Take account of the kind of guys you tend to talk to and give your attention.
If you notice that they tend to be of the same kind of demeanor and background, you may be picking the wrong kind of guy.
You have to be able to truly take a hard look at your choices in guys.
It can be tempting to want to play the victim.
You may believe that you have always had the best of intentions and are good by nature.
This can make it that much harder for you to truly look at the choices that you tend to make in guys.
You have to be willing to be real with yourself and take the blinders off.
Take a real look at the kind of guys that you tend to be attracted to or want to be in relationships with.
If there are similarities, you may want to start focusing on guys that don’t share some of those qualities.
This would give you a broader spectrum of guys to talk to and perhaps may lead to a guy who doesn’t lie to you.
Perhaps you have noticed that the guys you tend to like often talk about themselves.
They barely talk about you.
They just want to talk about themselves whenever they interact with you.
Perhaps you have noticed that these guys tend to flirt with a lot of girls.
They are very adept at getting female attention and seem to relish it wherever they go.
If you have noticed traits like this in the guys that you talk to, you may be putting yourself in constant risk of meeting guys who will always lie to you.
Perhaps you would be better off talking to a different kind of guy who doesn’t exhibit these kind of behaviors.
Another reason why guys always lie to you may be because you make them feel like they have to.
These guys may feel like you may jump into relationships or deep feelings too quickly.
You may be too overzealous in wanting that relationship to happen.
This is where you will have to do some introspection within yourself.
How often are you already finding yourself calling them or texting them multiple times a day or sending them constant social media messages perhaps through Snapchat when you barely know them?
When you become overzealous or overeager to be with a guy too soon in your interaction with him, that may make him want to lie to you just so that he doesn’t put himself in a difficult situation.
He may have been into you in the beginning.
However, as he has come to realize that you are too eager to get into a relationship or hear from him, he lies to you in order to protect himself and keep you away.
You will have to think about all this.
The kind of guy you choose and how you behave may be the root causes of why guys always lie to you.
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