Strongly consider why you don’t want your family to meet him.
What is it about him or your family that is causing this?
There is clearly an issue.
He doesn’t know what it is.
He is totally willing to meet your family.
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So what is it?
Perhaps you are worried that he wouldn’t meet the requirements your family expects in a mate?
You are an adult who makes your own decisions and your family should respect you as such.
Should you believe that this guy is who you want to be with, that is a decision you have made.
A family that respects you as an adult and an individual, have to accept your decisions.
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The danger of preventing him from meeting your family, believing that he doesn’t meet their standards, is in how this permeates into your own relationship with him and affects it in a negative way.
He senses that you don’t really agree with his accomplishments in life or you don’t really hold him to a high standard.
The message you would be subliminally sending him would be one of lack.
If he begins to feel like he lacks in a particular area, he doubts that you respect him.
You see him as less than.
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He doesn’t embody everything that your family wants in a mate for you and as a result somewhere in the back of your mind, you begin to view him as somewhat of a failure.
You will not come right out and tell him this, you force yourself to believe otherwise.
There is that part of you that does view him as somewhat of a step down.
This could affect the way you treat him and he has a read on this.
Perhaps you don’t want your family to meet him, worried that he wouldn’t get along with them for some reason.
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Well, in only focusing on bringing people around your family who you were certain would get along with them, you would pick relationships out of convenience.
You pick these relationships based on how you think your family will get along with them as opposed to who makes you happy.
This can be detrimental to your love life, as you will only be thinking about what makes your family happy.
You have to think about what makes you happy, as you are the one in the relationship, not your family.
You are the one who is supposed to love and cherish this person in a romantic sense and not your family.
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Therefore, you have to be with someone that you know makes you happy first and not someone you believe would make your family happy.
In the end, if you are looking to have a long-term relationship with this guy, he is destined to ask about meeting your family at some point.
It is just the natural progression of a relationship.
Come to terms with this, resolve your emotions, so that you move forward on a path that works best.
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