To judge you without knowing you personally is never a good first sign.
By calling you a goody two shoes, he was already showing signs of disinterest.
He was merely looking for an excuse to come up with so as to avoid the work of getting to know you more.
When a guy is interested in a girl but is worried that she is a goody two shoes, he has a different approach.
He attempts to get to know her better first before making a judgment to reject her.
When a guy rejects you this quickly without giving you much of a chance to prove him right or wrong, he was never that interested in you to begin with.
This is not a guy worth your while anyway.
A guy like this hasn’t shown patience nor compassion.
He did you a favor in rejecting you.
For him, there was no compatibility.
This means that finding common ground with him was unlikely.
Giant lulls in conversations were in your future, as you two find it increasingly difficult to relate to each other.
A woman who is naturally a goody two shoes isn’t a something to be ashamed of.
Be proud of who you are.
That being said, remember to have a fun and interesting side to you.
This is a side you showcase around guys, along with your other good qualities.
Your beauty gains a guy’s attention, but if he were to talk to you and you come off as though you don’t have much of an active social life or personal interests, on account of strictly hanging out with family and a small circle of friends, he is turned off.
Being a goody two shoes doesn’t mean that you can’t have different endeavors in life and open your social circle to people that normally aren’t in it.
The more it appears that you do engage and have fun with others who are outside your social circle, the easier it is for a guy to look at you as someone who would be fun to date.
The problem has nothing to do with you being a goody two shoes.
The problem sets in when a guy believes that you are a goody two shoes who won’t do anything outside of your comfort zone.
This is when a guy gets turned off.
Your task now is not to dwell on this rejection but to keep moving forward.
Let that side of you that is dynamic, personable and fun shine through.
There is a boyfriend in your future who appreciates that, irrespective of whether you are a goody two shoes or not.
Stay true to yourself.
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