When there is a pattern of this, it is you with the issues and not them.
No one is dating you, being that there is something that you are doing that is turning them off.
In order for you to overcome this problem, be honest with yourself.
Would you date someone who is exactly like you in personality?
Don’t answer it right away.
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Take a moment before you do this.
Alright, let’s ask it again.
Would you date someone who is exactly like you in personality?
The truth is, you wouldn’t.
You need to figure out what it is about yourself that is off-putting to people.
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The reason why I say the issues lie with you has to do with the pattern.
When you keep finding it hard to date people or keep people around long enough to date them, there is a problem coming from your end.
You are too eager to get into relationships.
In fact, the more you struggle to get dates, the more eager you get.
Once people get the impression you are too eager to get a date, they believe you are desperate.
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This is worrisome.
They worry that you would be too much to deal with.
You have expectations they can’t meet.
You are someone who is prone to moving a relationship too fast too soon.
They wonder why other people haven’t dated you in the past and what you are hiding in the closet, as far as your persona is concerned.
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Are you so eager, you will take anyone that comes your way and not have any standards?
In the end, being too eager triggers too many questions.
People are naturally fearful of the unknown and there are too many questions that have come up that don’t have answers.
They figure that it is too much to deal with and decide not to date you, not wanting the hassle.
Check yourself for this behavior.
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Exhibiting this behavior isn’t good and you have to stop it.
You are too clingy, wanting that partner to do everything with you and consequently making that person feel suffocated in the relationship.
They have no room to be themselves and begin to lose their sense of uniqueness.
They feel like they have to sacrifice important relationships in their lives just so that they can appease you.
This doesn’t bode well for any relationship.
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Being clingy is something you have got to watch for and avoid.
Your choice in dates is also important.
You are consistently choosing the same kind of person.
Well, choosing the same kind of person to date over and over again produces the same results.
Your personality doesn’t gel with theirs.
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There is something that is off about chemistry.
Similar personalities call for a change.
Find someone different and see whether your personalities play off each other better.
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