You would have to get over your fling if you want to move forward in your dating life.
Your fling was what it was.
That is most likely all it was.
If there hasn’t been any real attempts to communicate by the other person since the fling, they are showing you that they don’t want more.
Perhaps you had this fling because you believed that it would lead to something more.
Perhaps you actually liked this person a lot more than you were letting on.
However, this person may have simply seen this as a fling and nothing more.
They have no intentions of going any further.
You will have to come to terms with your emotions.
Ask yourself why you are still so caught up on the fling.
If you notice that you want more out of this, ask yourself why.
What is it about this person that makes you want more out of them? Why has this person become such a big part of your thoughts?
When you begin to realize that you can find those same qualities in someone else, you may be able to get over this fling and let it go.
When you realize that there is someone else out there that can give you what you want, you won’t keep holding on to this fling.
You will start to act in a manner that is liberating.
You will allow yourself to become a lot more open and receptive to the opportunities around you.
You will see those opportunities a lot more and begin to acknowledge them.
Once you begin to allow other opportunities for dates to come into your life, you will become distracted in a good way.
Your focus will change from constant thoughts about this fling, to thoughts about what is currently going on in your life and who you are interacting with it.
Once you start putting your attention on new dating prospects, this fling will begin to fade from memory.
Your thoughts will begin to push the memory of the fling aside replacing it with current events.
It is easier for you to get over a fling when it isn’t constantly in your thoughts.
You should also start seeing the value in you.
Your value is a factor.
You have to begin to understand the importance of what you have to offer in a relationship as a person.
Start observing your importance and acknowledging your uniqueness.
This observation will help to boost your sense of self-esteem and make you see your value.
Someone will appreciate your value and what you have to offer as a person.
Someone will want to get to know you and learn more about what makes you who you are.
Someone will want to share in your hopes and dreams.
Someone will care about what direction in life you want to go.
Your fling doesn’t see any of this.
They have clearly shown that they don’t recognize nor acknowledge your value as a person that they would like to get to know.
This doesn’t mean that your fling is a bad person.
Your fling is just not interested in you in that way.
Understand your value and the fact that someone would appreciate it.
This will help you get over your fling.
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