Unfortunately, you are so concerned with finding a girlfriend, you are making girls get the sense that you are too desperate for one.

This turns them off.

Now, you are left wondering why others make it seem so easy to get a girlfriend.

They are getting the sense that this is all you want and nothing more.

You desire this above all else.

As a result, you are acting in a way that comes off as either trying too hard or desperate.

Girls are turned off by this.

Girls are typically drawn to guys who seem like they are perfectly happy in their own lives and aren’t desperately looking for a girlfriend.

These guys are usually quite content with who they are and what they want out of life.

They have a lot going on in life, and aren’t desperate or in need of a relationship.

They have healthy relationships with their friends and their hobbies.

These are guys that are a challenge to a girl.

Girls love a challenge like this.

It makes them feel that much more special when they catch the guy.

They feel like they caught someone of value.

They don’t want to feel like this guy is going to be living vicariously through them.

This is because he has an active and full life.

She wants to become a part of it.

You should observe your behavior and your mindset around girls.

Do you try too hard at times?

In essence, are you always trying to please girls and make them like you?

Are you always afraid to say something controversial because you are worried that it will ruin your chances with girls?

Are you always going out of your way to compliment them profusely or give them special treatment?

When you do things like this, you are acting desperate and trying too hard.

It is tough for girls to take you seriously when you are like this.

She has no sense of excitement or thrill because she can already predict how you will behave.

It doesn’t make it any fun for her.

This is something that you have to stop if you want to find a girlfriend.

You want girls to notice you and even chase you.

They won’t do this if they already know that they can get you this easily and that you will do everything they say.

Girls like having someone that can handle them and be the man.

You aren’t the man when you agree to everything she says.

On the flip side, you are trying too little.

In essence, you aren’t attempting to be around girls and talk to them.

Develop an attitude that is at ease with talking to girls.

You don’t have to be flirting or trying to hit on them all the time.

Make conversation.

Talk about anything that comes to mind, being lose and free.

The more you talk to girls in general, the more you learn what they enjoy talking about.

This increases your range of topics with future girls that you talk to.

As you get increasingly comfortable with talking to girls, they become increasingly attached to you and what you have to say.

At this stage, a number of them become interested in you and you find your girlfriend.